Tips for married couples - Part 2

This is the second part of tips to married couples. Hope you will like this as much as Part 1.

Anger doesn't fetch you anything. Instead of continuing an argument on which you lose control and turning around, stop, rest and wake up refreshed to offer a new perspective more satisfying than the previous day.Your sleep will also help to dispose negative feeling residues. Sometimes resentment is lurking in the shadows. Just relax, relax. You'll feel better in the morning. Fights are common after marriage. As per a survey 90% of couples just compromise after their matrimony, that means 10% of them only do not fight :-)


Ask yourself what you can do to make your spouse happy.Find the way, that makes the life of your partner more beautiful every day.

Embrase your spouse for at least 5 seconds before leaving in the morning and before you go to bed at night.


Thank your partner for little things.


Praise yourself and partner every day. It does not take much time for your spouse to feel good. Be sincere when you disagree with him.

Cuddle and hold the hand often, every day.

Shut up and listen! You learn a lot more by mouth shut and keeping mind open. You have one mouth to speak and two ears to listen, twice as much as you speak.

Talk quietly. The way you convey things have a huge impact on what you say. Stay calm and speak in a normal tone.


Be careful and think about the words you choose to use. Before speaking, ask yourself .


At least once a month, organize a special evening out with another married couple to be able to laugh and learn the relationship of others. At least go for one romantic outing per month and bring happiness to home.



Take courses together. Some restaurants will teach you how to make a meal from A to Z or your couple can learn to play a musical instrument. It's a great way to spend time together.


Don't make decisions by your own. Instead speak to your spouse and ask for advice before taking any decision.


Be active. Be healthy. Take care of him / her when he / she is ill.


Appreciate the strengths of your spouse and weaknesses in the same way. He or she has chosen to be with you because there are certain aspects of your personality which he or she can learn. Show  him/her how much you love in supporting her when he or she is weak and be proud when he or she is strong. 


Things like wake him up with a cup of coffee or iron a shirt or arrange a candle light dinner at home, are the small ways to show your love.


Show that your partner will be missed when he/she goes on a trip!



Laugh at small inconvenience and small stupidities of life and you will be the happiest person in the world!


Be honest in all aspects of your marital relationship. If you've never been, start now!


Go dancing with your husband in the weekend. It is a great exercise and fun. If you do not know how to dance, follow courses and learn to dance together for fun.


Go for a walk together. Exercise is not only good for physical health but also it pumps blood to your brain and helps you think more clearly. 

The bright minds create a beautiful environment to be open and honest to talk about everything.


Sit and talk about the weekend and what to expect next week. It's a great way to get acquainted. Go out with friends once a week! Take your wife and spend with her on weekends. This gives you a moment away from children and some quality time to spend together.

Gather the children and share an inspiring thought, then finish with treats.


Avoid being too critical and too defensive. Never argue with your spouse. End the dispute with a humor. You can always discuss the problem when your spouse is in a good mood.Make sure you have a safe and clear financial plan.

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