Tips for married couples - Part 1

The wedding feast is a history now just like the excitement of preparing for the ceremony. You quickly enter your married life. To make a perfect marriage requires a mixture of compromise and honesty, not a servile behavior.

Be yourself from the start of your married life. If you start a relationship by highlighting the perfect hybrid version of you, your partner might soon know your true nature? Be yourself from day one and your spouse / will prove to you that he / she accepts and loves you for what you really are and not for what you claim to be.

Sharpen your sense of humor. A sense of humor is essential to make a good marriage. Try to see the humor in difficult situations: it will help you both to get through difficult times.

Forgive, forgive, forgive. These are the three most important words in a good marriage.

Give yourself benefit of the doubt. You have built a matrimonial relationship based on trust. Do not think your husband does things in order to annoy you. He / she may not realize that he / she does something that bothers you. Let your partner know what's bothering you without thinking the worst, then give him time to adjust and correct that.

Drop small annoyances. Ask yourself if what annoys you is really worth arguing. If something really bothers you, talk without offending and see if you can resolve the concerns without arguing.

Find a way to share responsibilities. If you both work 80 hours a week, why should women always cook and do housework? Try to compromise on the things you do best, for example, dishes and mow the lawn. Find a way to create a routine that involves everyone, "If you take out the garbage, I shall return," "You wash the clothes, I dry", etc. This will prevent the woman syndrome at nagging home. Remember that you'll live all your life: Take care of your health. The earth does not stop turning if you do not finish the laundry today.

Take time to sit down and spend time together every day. Even if it is only ten minutes before going to sleep, talk and enjoy the company of each other.

Do not ask for perfection. Remember: your husband is a human being and so are you. Make comments like: You seem tired, You are working too much, you are too stressed. Every family has their own problems.

Do something nice for your partner through the difficult times. The coldness and constantly arguing about a problem  will only separate you. A considerate gesture can do much to make you feel closer to each other while you resolve your problems. This works especially well if you show your love with your touch!

Try to find something positive in your partner every day and tell him! Whether it's a compliment on her outfit or a thank you for taking out the trash, it's always nice to receive encouragement from the person you love. And you will feel good to encourage.

Learn from your mistakes. When you say I'm sorry, do it really! This means that you will not commit the same mistake. You then have to excuse the same behavior of your partner  and it builds trust over time.

Do not keep any secret with yourself unless it is very personal. Being transparent with your other half is important because it shows that you do trust each other on every detail of your life. If you hide secrets, they will probably be discovered and throw trouble to your marriage. Clarification will prevent suspicions and jealousy. Do not wait for your partner to question you. If you keep a fair and honest appearance, open dialogue with your partner, he will trust you when it is really imperative.

Remember that marriage is a story of arrangements. When you plan your wedding, you may have fun to imagine a life of fairy tales, happily ever after. The reality of marriage is that there is sometimes routine. You can be tense, on edge or bored, be dissatisfied with one another, not to feel the flame. It is not a matter of feelings. This is not a matter of feelings. It is also about your commitment to one another. You may feel that love doesn't exist, you may feel that your needs are satisfied or anything else, in reality, you've made ​​a promise to each other. Most of the time the marriage is not romantic at all, it is teamwork of both the partners.

Anticipate the tough times. You'll be much less stressed if you work together on a budget, at least accumulate small savings and get ready for difficult times when life will be less easy

Act as if everything was fine. When you go through a difficult time, you are unable to remember what attracted you to him / her and start wondering what made ​​you  to marry. Just smile and act normally in kind and elegant way. Pretend everything is normal. In fact, make efforts to be attentive, be kind and take care of your partner. This may sound strange, but if you just take one step after another and act as if everything is fine, finally, everything really will look normal and will go even better.

Goud matrimony

Getting married through parents/ relatives or finding a bride or groom on a goud matrimony is not very important. What is important is your promise to your partner and forgiveness. Stay glued for more tips to couples. 

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